Sperm donors – the hidden heros behind many of today’s families

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Sperm donors are more important than ever before

An increasing number of single women and lesbian couples are now using IVF to help them conceive. Since Victorian laws changed in 2010, allowing single women and lesbian couples to access IVF, the number of women using sperm donors has markedly increased.

These women and couples typically gain access to donor sperm by asking someone they know to donate sperm (e.g. a friend or family member) or by using an anonymous sperm donor via a registered sperm bank. Unfortunately, like blood banks, sperm banks often face shortages.

Long story short, if you’re thinking about donating your mighty fine swimmers, doing so sooner rather than later would make a world of difference to those currently waiting for donor sperm to conceive.

Need a little more motivation?

A strong desire to help others is a great start but some other reasons you may consider donating include:

You’re not ready to have children yet or don’t plan to raise a family of your own

Families are a source of joy for many of us – they can bring meaningful relationships and purpose to our lives. But if you are not yet ready to have children or not sure if you ever will, donating your sperm can help provide a similar sense of purpose and meaning. Indeed, studies have found that men who donate sperm report a sense of satisfaction that they played a role in the formation of a new life.1

You already have children, and want to help others become parents too

After experiencing the joy of parenthood yourself, you may simply want to give those who can’t conceive naturally the extra help they need to start their own family.

You’ve seen people struggle with fertility issues

Many sperm donors know people who have struggled to fall pregnant, or may have faced their own challenges when starting a family, and would now like to help others in similar circumstances. This often includes gay men who may have required donor eggs and a female surrogate in order to start their own family. Donating can be incredibly rewarding, especially when you know from your own experience how much of an impact you are having on someone else’s life.

A few things to weigh up before becoming a sperm donor

Before becoming a sperm donor, there are a few things to be aware of:

Sperm donors do not have any parental rights nor parental responsibilities

When donation occurs through a registered IVF clinic, sperm donors have no parental rights nor reponsibilities to any children born from their donated sperm. You can be reassured that the child’s legal parents are entirely responsible for raising the child, including all financial costs.

A child may contact their sperm donor once they turn 18

In Australia, children born from donated sperm have the right to obtain their sperm donor’s contact details once they turn 18. Not all children choose to, but if they do get in touch with you, you still have no legal obligation as a parent. However, you may decide that you too would like some involvement in the child’s life.

A sperm donor can also request contact with a child once they turn 18

As an anonymous sperm donor, you also have the option of applying for information about any children conceived from your sperm once they turn 18. If you do so, the child will be informed of your request – they will then let you know if they would like any contact with you and the type of contact they are comfortable with.2

Sperm donors are not paid

In Australia, it is illegal for donors to receive a payment for their sperm. However, you may be entitled to compensation for certain expenses associated with providing the donation, such as medical or travel expenses.

How do I go about becoming a sperm donor?

There are a couple of ways you can donate sperm:

1. Donate to someone you know

You might have a friend who is struggling with fertility, is single or is in a same-sex relationship. In these cases you can choose to donate your sperm to that person or couple specifically, using a fertility clinic as an intermediary.

2. Donate anonymously to a sperm bank

Many people are unable to find a sperm donor using their own personal contacts, e.g. family or friends. In this case, they can access sperm from an anonymous donor via a registered sperm bank (usually associated with their fertility or IVF clinic). By donating your sperm to one of these banks, you can help up to 10 women or couples become pregnant. You can donate a sperm sample one or more times, after which your sperm will be frozen and stored for future use.

What’s involved?

At Newlife IVF, we aim to make donating as easy as possible for you. Five simple steps are involved, four of which can be completed on the same day at our Box Hill fertility treatment centre:

  1. Meet with our counsellor who will ensure you understand your legal rights
  2. Meet with one of our doctors who will take your medical history (for the recipient’s records) and order the required blood tests and semen analysis
  3. Have your blood taken by our on-site pathology team
  4. Donate your sperm using our private, on-site sperm collection amenities
  5. Repeat blood test 3 months later.

Your donated sperm will be quarantined until both your semen analysis and 3-month blood tests are given the all clear. At this point, your frozen sperm become part of our sperm bank. Women and couples requiring donor sperm will be able to choose sperm from you or our other donors based on information we supply to them about each available donor, e.g. physical characteristics, medical history, hobbies/interests, the reasons you give for becoming a donor. As such, we welcome sperm donors from all nationalities and cultures to ensure that women and couples have sufficient choice based on their own nationality and culture.

Your frozen sperm may be stored for years before it is used and it may only be used once or many times – up to the 10 family limit that exists in Victoria. A woman or couple may even choose to access your sperm a second or third time in order to complete their family and maintain genetic lineage between siblings.

Your sperm can only be frozen for up to 10 years. After this time, any remaining sperm are discarded.

Ready to donate life?

Newlife IVF is a doctor-owned specialist fertility centre in Melbourne that provides single women, heterosexual and same-sex couples across Victoria with the extra help they need to conceive. We are very welcoming of new sperm donors, including single men, fathers and gay individuals or couples. If you are considering becoming a donor, please call us on (03) 8080 8933 so we can give you all the facts about sperm donation and tell you how you can best help others to create the family they are dreaming of.

Further reading

  1. Sperm donor information pack, Sperm Donors Australia
  2. Old sperm and international imports: Victoria has a donor shortage (The Age news article)
  3. More Victorian women choosing to be single mothers (The Sydney Morning Herald news article)

* Become a donor with Newlife IVF

References

  1. Bossema ER, Janssens PMW, Landwehr F et al. Acta Obstetricia et Gynecologica Scandinavica 2013; 92:679–85. ↩
  2. The family law implications of early contact between sperm donors and their donor offspring. Australian Institute of Family Studies website (accessed online October 2019). ↩

IVF success rates – what do the numbers really mean?

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In 2017, the number of IVF births in Australia and New Zealand was the highest in IVF’s 40-year history – for every 100 treatment cycles started, 18 babies were born.1

However, the likelihood of success is different for everyone and is particularly influenced by the age of the woman. This means that when you are reviewing IVF success rates – at either a clinic or population level – you should look at data specific to your age group. For example, for women aged younger than 30 years, the live birth rate per fresh embryo transfer (using the woman’s own embryos) was 38.5% in 2017 but this figure dropped to 23.7% for women aged 35–39 and 8.9% for women aged 40–44.1 In 2017, the average age of women undergoing IVF and using their own eggs was 35.7 years while the average age of women undergoing IVF using donor eggs or embryos was 40.3 years.1

IVF success rates are not represented as a single percentage probability. Instead, there are several different figures that clinics may use to report their success rates and the different terms can be confusing. For example, you might wonder what the difference is between a ‘clinical pregnancy rate’ and a ‘cumulative pregnancy rate’, or why there are generally more births per ‘egg collection’ than there are per ‘embryo transfer’.

This article provides an overview of the different figures you might see and what they mean. Before reading the rest of this article, you may find it helpful to refamiliarise yourself with the different steps that make up an IVF treatment cycle.

Live births/pregnancies per treatment cycles commenced

An IVF treatment cycle starts with hormonal stimulation – when you start taking medicine after your period to encourage your ovaries to produce lots of eggs. The IVF treatment cycle ends when a fertilised egg (now called an embryo) is transferred back into your womb in the hope that it will successfully implant in the wall of the uterus, thereby establishing a pregnancy.

The number of live births/pregnancies per treatment cycles commenced describes the number of pregnancies and live births achieved for women that started an IVF cycle (with the intention of a pregnancy, not just to freeze eggs), regardless of whether or not they progressed to subsequent steps of the cycle. So this figure includes cycles that were started, but were subsequently cancelled, or where there were no eggs to collect or no suitable embryo to transfer.

In 2017, 22.9% of initiated cycles resulted in a clinical pregnancy* and 18.1% in a live birth.1 The disparity between the two figures is due to miscarriage or stillbirth.

*A clinical pregnancy is where baby’s heart was heard on ultrasound, usually at around 7 weeks, i.e. not just a positive blood (hCG) test.

Live births/pregnancies per egg retrieval

Measuring the number of live births or pregnancies per egg collection, indicates how successful IVF is in woman who proceeded as far as egg collection.

In 2017, the overall clinical pregnancy rate was 43% per egg retrieval cycle, with a live birth rate of 34%. These figures include cycles where no eggs could be collected (e.g. due to a lack of eggs), as well as cycles where eggs were retrieved but they did not result in embryos for transfer.

*You may also see egg collection referred to as egg retrieval, oocyte pick-up or OPU.

Live births/pregnancies per embryo transfer

Embryo transfer is a critical step in the IVF process, where the developing embryo (fertilised egg) is transferred back into the woman’s womb (uterus). Unfortunately, success rates per embryo transfer can be misleading, because the success of this step is highly dependent on the quality of the embryo, and whether the embryo is transferred fresh or frozen first, then thawed.

These days, embryos may also be genetically screened before transfer, in order to select the highest-quality embryo available for transfer, thereby increasing the likelihood of a successful pregnancy. This type of screening is not recommended for everyone; moreso for older women and/or women who have experienced recurrent miscarriage or multiple, failed IVF cycles. Where genetic screening has been employed, the pregnancy rate per embryo transfer is likely to be higher – and is one of the key reasons why IVF success rates have improved over recent years. However, this means that this figure may not be a good reflection of your own chances of success.

In 2017, the overall rate of pregnancy for cycles reaching embryo transfer was 33.9%, with a live birth rate of 26.8%.1

Implantation rate

The implantation rate describes the number of pregnancy sacs seen given the number of embryos transferred in an IVF treatment cycle. An embryo transfer is considered successful when the embryo implants, i.e. physically attaches itself to the wall of the womb. However, the implantation rate does not tell us how likely these embryos are to go on and result in a clinical pregnancy or live birth.

Live births/pregnancies per implantation

The live births or pregnancies per implantation indicates the percentage of women that went on to achieve a clinical pregnancy or live birth after an embryo had successfully implanted following its transfer into the womb.

The cumulative live birth or clinical pregnancy rate

The cumulative rate for live births or clinical pregnancies is likely to be higher than all the other figures we have described so far. This is because it measures results over multiple IVF attempts, meaning that compared to a single cycle, there are more opportunities for success. The cumulative rate can be measured against either a predefined number of IVF cycles, or it can be measured against the total number of cycles that were attempted by each person.

Which measure of IVF success is most important?

The IVF success rate that is most relevant to you will depend on your individual circumstances, including your age and whether you have had IVF before – and if you are in a cycle right now, what stage of the IVF cycle you have progressed to.

If you are just starting to think about IVF and have not begun treatment yet, then the cumulative live birth rate can help you understand the average success rates for people after their IVF journey is complete.

If you have had one unsuccessful cycle of IVF so far, the cumulative live birth rate can give you an idea of your chance of success if you go on and have additional cycles.

However, the cumulative rate (and other success rates mentioned here) do need to be interpreted with a high degree of caution, because numerous factors influence a couple’s chance of success with IVF.

What else do you need to take into account when interpreting success rates?

Not all IVF cycles are the same. When interpreting data, you should check whether advanced scientific techniques such as ICSI, IMSI or pre-implantation genetic screening were used, and whether the data pertains to fresh versus frozen embryo transfers. This will enable you to review success rates for IVF treatment cycles that most closely resemble your own.

If you are looking at overseas data, keep in mind that single embryo transfer is considered best practice in Australia (in an effort to avoid the risks associated with multiple pregnancies). However, international clinics may offer multiple embryo transfers (transferring more than one embryo into the womb at a time), in which case their IVF success rates per embryo transfer may appear higher.

To gain an understanding of how successful IVF is in Australia, you may like to review this national data collated by The University of NSW.

Weighing up your chance of success?

To get a realistic understanding of your chance of success, it’s best to consult a fertility specialist, so you can receive advice specific to your personal circumstances. If you are looking for a way forward but are not sure where to start or what to try next, you can book an appointment with Nicole, Martin, Chris, Sameer or Hugo by calling (03) 8080 8933 or by booking online. We welcome women and couples who are just starting to consider their fertility treatment options, as well as those who may be seeking a second opinion after treatment elsewhere.

Further reading

References

  1. Australian & New Zealand Assisted Reproduction Database (ANZARD). Assisted Reproductive Technology in Australia & New Zealand 2017 (report). Available at https://npesu.unsw.edu.au. Last accessed 29 October 2019. ↩ ↩

Infertility, IVF and the festive season

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This post was contributed by Laura Oliver, one of Newlife IVF’s counsellors. 

Christmas often symbolises a time of joy and happiness. We plan celebratory events with family and friends, and take time to reflect on the end of another year. But this time of year can also be very difficult for women and couples who have been struggling with infertility and going through assisted reproductive treatment (ART) like IVF.

The focus at Christmas time is often on children and families, with Christmas cards and social media posts typically displaying pictures of family events or children with Santa. There can be a real sense of pressure to deliver good news at a time of year when many people are celebrating. However, if you’ve been struggling to fall pregnant or undergoing fertility treatment, the end of the year can serve as a painful marker that you have not achieved what you had hoped for this year, and for some of you, a reminder that yet another 12 months have gone by without a successful outcome.

All of this can bring up unwanted feelings of sadness, frustration, jealousy, anger and grief – and with a barrage of festive mementos and occasions around you to remind you that you’re not pregnant, it’s no wonder you feel this way!

Below are some tips on how you can manage the festive season while coping with fertility issues and undergoing treatment.

Be selective

Pre-plan and be selective about which events you attend at this time of year. If you do attend an event, consider how long to stay there for, and what you can do while there to minimise any feelings of stress or discomfort – for example, helping cook or wash up can help keep you busy and distracted, and may assist you to avoid topics of conversation you don’t want to be involved in.

Warn people in advance that you may find Christmas difficult – this doesn’t mean having to disclose information about your fertility; you can make more general references to having had a stressful or difficult year instead. Try to give your hosts time to understand that this year might look a little different for you, and to not be offended if you decide not to attend or only stay for a short while.

If you have a partner or a support person with you, plan a code word or signal to give when you need them to rescue you from a difficult conversation, or when you want to wind up and go home.

Celebrate

Celebrate how you want. Sometimes, this might feel a little selfish at a time when there are often traditions to uphold or family events to attend, but give yourself permission to celebrate in a way that is comfortable and meaningful to you at this time.

This could mean going away with a friend or just your partner (or staying home) and avoiding big family gatherings. Or starting a new tradition for this time of year. Do something that you know will bring you joy, no matter how small.

Re-charge

Use some of this holiday period to re-charge and take a break from treatment (if you feel you can). Take advantage of your time off work and prioritise self-care – pamper yourself! Get a massage, go away for a few days, plan some day trips to the beach or the countryside, or curl up with a good book.

Reflect

Take some time to reflect on your IVF journey so far, and perhaps think about your plans for treatment moving forward. Is there anything you could do differently next year? What are your expectations, and do you need to adjust these at all? Do you have questions to discuss with your specialist? Perhaps even think about how much longer you think you can continue with IVF treatment before needing to pause and reassess again.

Reflect on your own, with your partner (if you have one) or a support person. You could try using a journal to write down how you’re feeling, record the questions you may have, or come up with a list of pros and cons to aid future decision-making.

Ask for help

Use your supports (partner, family, friends) to help you work through any difficult feelings as they arise. Be open and honest with your networks about how you feel and the ways in which they can be of support to you. Be reassured that the way you are feeling, and the different types of emotions and thoughts that may be triggered at this time of year, are very normal. But we all cope in different ways, so make sure you do whatever it is you need to do to keep your heart, mind and body strong for the year to come. And above all else, remember to be kind to yourself!

Lastly, remember that the Newlife IVF counselling team is here to help. We can help you navigate and unpack your experiences and emotions. If you feel that you could benefit from the support of our counselling team, please call the Newlife IVF team on (03) 8080 8933.